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 O no! Not the babies! Babies are being born! Not the babies! Stop this! Stop this now! No no no no no no no no no no no no no! Not the babies!

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The Fatal Effects of Transphobia

November 22, 2011 • By Dr. Amy Marsh, EdD, DHS, ACS, CHT, Sexuality / Sex Therapy Topic Expert Contributor

In May this year, 16 people lost their lives to transphobic violence and hate: 11 in Brazil, and one each in the Dominican Republic, El Salvador, Guatemala, Mexico, and Venezuela. I know, because just a couple of days ago I read aloud the names of each departed soul at the annual Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDoR) observance in Oakland, CA. Of course, not all the names were known. Most were women, transgendered women, and if their names were not known, we usually knew something of where they lost their lives: their apartments, the street, a bathroom, on a bus… In May, their ages (if known) ranged from 15 to 39. Mercifully, I did not have to read the details of how each person was murdered. After each name, or “name unknown,” a small gong sounded, and I went on to the next person on the list.

When we finished reading the roll of the dead from Nov. 20, 2010 through Nov. 19, 2011, we found we had a significant increase, from the previous year. Transgender people (again, mostly women) are tortured, shot, strangled, burned, stabbed, beaten, dragged to death, or have their throat slit. Death comes suddenly. In the street, on the bus, at home. Frequently, they are dismembered, as Shelley “Treasure” Hilliard was in Detroit, earlier this month – her burnt torso found next to a freeway.

Sometimes they have also been raped.

Transgender Day of Remembrance was founded in 1998 by Gwendolyn Ann Smith, in response to the murder of Rita Hester. Rita was stabbed over 20 times in her chest, while at home in her Massachusetts apartment. TDoR has since become an international day of action and mourning. However activists who organize local observances, such as Tiffany Woods, program coordinator for the TransVision Clinic in Alameda County, CA, are sick of the continuing carnage. “I am angry that we still have to put on this memorial, and yes, it is a memorial.” Woods writes, “The murder and violence continue.”

Such mayhem is sickening, uncivilized, and dangerously out of control. The violence against trans women, in particular, also contains a measure of misogyny which should alarm us all. Trans men are also not immune to the violence born of profound ignorance, nurtured in a culture of hate for all who do not conform to the narrowest (and most artificial) binary standards. Trans and gender variant people are subjected to incidents of violence and discrimination which are inflicted on them simply because of their gender expression. We already know that racism, sexism, and homophobia are not only morally wrong, but ultimately counterproductive for a civil society. We need to add transphobia to that list.

As mental health and complementary professionals, we must do a better job of countering the corrosive and brutal effects of transphobia (as well as all other forms of prejudice, social injustice, and hate). If we are presently uncomfortable with serving gender variant and trans people, we can get more training and broaden our understanding of people with non-binary gender. We can even learn to use new pronouns, such as the gender-neutral “hir,” “ze,” or “zir.” Better yet, we can learn to ask people what pronoun they prefer

I'll give up on truth!

 Please 🙏! I'll give up my beliefs! Please! I'll stop believing anything! Please🙏 just don't hurt me! I don't need beliefs! Just leave me alone!

Newspeak

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The Party said that Oceania had never been in alliance with Eurasia. He,
Winston Smith, knew that Oceania had been in alliance with Eurasia as short
a time as four years ago. But where did that knowledge exist? Only in his
own consciousness, which in any case must soon be annihilated. And if all
others accepted the lie which the Party imposed--if all records told the
same tale--then the lie passed into history and became truth. 'Who controls
the past,' ran the Party slogan, 'controls the future: who controls the
present controls the past.' And yet the past, though of its nature
alterable, never had been altered. Whatever was true now was true from
everlasting to everlasting. It was quite simple. All that was needed was
an unending series of victories over your own memory. 'Reality control',
they called it: in Newspeak, 'doublethink

Biology is garbage

 Biology is all garbage! Nobody cares about that stuff! Nobody cares about truth! It's all about imagination! It's all about playing pretend! Truth wounds us! So, we murdered it! Reality hurts! So 🎃 we cancelled it. Nobody cares about truth anymore! Reality is nonsense! What matters is what I feel! What matters is what I know! Biology? Throw it all in the garbage! DNA isn't self-affirming! Throw it away! Only KKK members believe in it anyway! No child should ever be allowed to become an adult! Puberty is morally wrong. Nature hates children that it destroys children by turning them into adults! Banish teenhood!

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 For example, I am so sorry for the inconvenience.

You are amazing!

It sounds great to be in my opinion!

If you don't want to be a good person,

You are awesome!

It was a great idea to get into this game.

Biology according to respect

 Biology is the study of life, which does not mean that we hate those whose friends or relatives are dead! We have no right to Ask where babies come from, as that might offend someone, and those people would be fully justified with being offended! We should also not assume that gender actually exists.